The main concept to attract love is to first love yourself. By treating yourself well and pampering, you will attract people to you, for business or pleasure, that are loving people. Next, if you want to attract a partner, make sure you have room in your life and heart first, then the person will come to you. The location of the love and relationship section of your home is: standing at the front door, looking into your home, it is the far right corner of the home. If you are going to feng shui each room separately, the love corner is the far right corner of each room, standing at the doorway looking into the room. The best colors to use in those areas are red, pink and white. Do not have any clutter in those areas. If you do, you will attract negative energy and problems in your relationships. If you want to attract love make sure there are no blocks preventing love from coming to you. Blocks include : not loving yourself, the mindset you are not good enough to attract a quality partner or still thinking about an ex and keeping a wall of safety up to protect your heart from getting hurt again. Do not go out looking for love. Just have fun and live your life while being open and friendly. Look your best because it feels good, not to attract a partner; that is when you will meet someone to date! For example, if you believe that you are too heavy, or too thin, or too old to find love again, that will be your fate. However, if you believe you are a good person and worthy to give and receive love, then the Universe will provide many choices. If you have an ex you still think about, you have to release him or her. Write him or her a letter as I described in the Forgiveness Chapter. When you are finished, forgive that person and rip up the letter and throw it away. You will always have a special place in your heart for them. You will be able to release them and your heart will be free to give to another. Plus, you will no longer hold onto any anger or grief. You can also imagine a cord connecting you to your ex. Picture a white scissor cutting the cord. Get rid of all pictures of your ex, jewelry and anything that holds memories from him or her. If you are not able to do that, put the items in a box and put it away. You should NOT wear any of the jewelry they gave you, their clothing, or any items with their energy on it. Life is all about energy. When we wear something from another, we are carrying their energy. Other people you come into contact with, whether they realize it or not, can sense this. They will feel you are already involved with someone and will not try to approach you because quite frankly, no one wants to get rejected. Sarah was getting frustrated because she was not meeting any men. She did not date for many years. While I was reading her, I noticed she was wearing two rings on her left hand, wedding finger. She said she wore them for many years on that finger. It looked like an engagement ring and a wedding band. Sarah told me, it was not technically a wedding band and the other ring had a black stone, not a diamond. I told her it does not matter because it looks like she is married. Some women wear different color stones now as an engagement ring. I advised her to take off both rings and see what happens. Within two weeks, she met a man and they were happily dating. Diane did not understand why after twenty years of being divorced, she was not in a long-term relationship. At first, she thought it was her weight because she gained a lot of weight over the years. She started working on herself and lost all of the extra weight. The weight was not the problem. Diane realized that every single day, she was wearing a denim shirt over her shirt while at home. It was very comfortable. One day she realized her ex-husband used to have the same shirt! All those years, subconsciously, she was wearing the shirt finding comfort in it because it reminded her of him, the good times. That was the reason men did not enter her life for more than a fling; she was not open in her energy field or her heart for someone new. Tell your partner what size ring you wear if you want to get engaged. Typically, if your partner proposes and the engagement ring does NOT fit, that means the marriage will not last forever. For example, my first husband surprised me on Christmas Eve with a marriage proposal. I was so happy that I cried with joy for ten minutes. He said, “don’t you want to put the ring on?” The engagement ring was too small, so I stuck it on my pinky and had it re-sized. We got married. A couple years later, I got pregnant. Six months into the pregnancy, Steve had a heart attack and passed away. It was a difficult time in my life. The ring not fitting meant we would not be together for a long time. I was his life mate, but he was not mine. I have seen this happen many times with my clients. If the engagement ring fits, typically the marriage will last. Drop a hint about your size before he proposes. A round diamond ring is best for positive energy. Tear-drop shaped stone would manifest a lot of tears during the relationship.
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