At the age of seventeen Pamela got her first boyfriend. She was never talked to about boys or sex. Although she wanted to be an attorney, she chose not to go to college and spent her remaining teen years and early twenties with her boyfriend. Personal experiences have motivated her to empower girls to love themselves and understand that having a boyfriend does not mean sex. She has spent many years as a mentor in Student Ministries at Faith Chapel Christian Center in Birmingham, Alabama. She currently resides in the New England area with her husband and son.