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With Death On My Shoulder: The Spirituality of Depression

by:
Bonnie Joia (Author)

ISBN: 0-7414-2764-8 ©2005
Price: $18.95
Book Size: 5.5'' x 8.5'' , 374 pages
Category/Subject: BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Personal Memoirs

For persons who rely on anti-depressant drugs rather than accepting unwelcome emotions, With Death on My Shoulder offers hope for vibrant Life—the twin sister of Death.

Abstract:
An attempted suicide in 1968 launched an intense journey to emotional and spiritual health. The mother of five children, trapped in a loveless marriage, hope replaced despair as Death became my friend and guide. My mother had taught: “smile and be happy, regardless of circumstances;” my father’s dictum was “see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.” At age thirty-five I’d seldom acknowledged anything un-nice. Death carried disassociated feelings to awareness, inspiring courage to seek the truth that leads to wholeness.

For persons who rely on anti-depressant drugs rather than accepting unwelcome emotions, With Death on My Shoulder offers hope for vibrant Life -- the twin sister of Death.

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Customer Reviews

  Silent, Suffering Sisterhood , 12/18/2005
Reviewer: Pam Kazmaier
This is a sad story of the silent, suffering sisterhood among women in the lds church. Bonnie's obedience to the church caused her to neglect her own potential for a brilliant career, in order to shore up her husband's puny attempts at one. Rather than trust her inner voice, she abandoned her goals, in order to obey the church, and a miserable husband, who was cruel and abusive. It was shocking to read of her passive paralysis that prevented her from protecting her innocent children from violent beatings. Her creepy husband made fun of her, kept them in financial ruin, and had an affair, as she stoically stood by his side. Bonnie was groomed by church and parents to lose herself, give away her power, let her dreams die, and live in fear and guilt in order to prove allegiance to a church. As Hitler admonished women of his day, "Kinder, Kirche, Kuche!", the lds church commands women today, "Children, Church, Cooking!" It was only after Bonnie quit obeying that her situation improved. We women need to wake each other up by telling our horrific stories of abuse and degredation. I applaud Bonnie's brave voice in telling her story. Pam Kazmaier, author of the essay, "Losing my Mind, Bit by Bit"

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  Seeking truth leads to freedom , 12/19/2005
Reviewer: Deon Kane
This book is a remarkable exploration of the consequences of how religious and cultural indoctrination makes women subservient to male domination. Such demeaning of the female, so prevalent in our society, is explored in intimate detail in this courageous memoir of a devout Mormon woman. Reading the book brought awareness of traps in my own life where I have been an unknowing victim. It was an astounding revelation of how we become entangled in unwanted circumstances, and how fearlessly seeking truth allows us to thrive.

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  A Second Reading , 12/20/2005
Reviewer: Pam Kazmaier
As I re-read Bonnie's book, I realized it had a huge impact on me. I read it in 3 days, finding it difficult to put down. She is a fine writer. She speaks from her heart. I ached for her, but also felt exhilerated as she "climbed out her hole", so to speak, and began to do yoga, listened to herself, and found ways to take care of herself. I cheered for her. Her book is a must for women in the lds faith. We're all such stoic soldiers. We need to take care of ourselves.

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  very well done... , 03/17/2007
Reviewer: Chris
Bonnie Joia is a very talented writer indeed. I cannot say enough about the manner in which this book touched me. 4.5 stars.

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